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We Already Are, Even Before You Asked –Bestfriends

We Already Are, Even Before You Asked

LOTS OF tears were shed
Lots of laughter were heard

Lots of stories were shared
Lots of whining were ranted

Lots of words were thrown
Lots of embarrassment were seen

Lots of happiness were feasted
Lots of sadness were defeated

Lots of problems were solved
Lots of hindrances were penetrated

Lots of misunderstanding
Lots of moments were treasured

There are lots of people
But there’s only a handful who cares

There are lots of people
But there’s only a handful who stays

There are lots of people
But there’s only a handful who interferes

There are lots of people
But there’s only a handful of true friends

There are lots of people
But you’re one of those handful

There are lots of people
But you’re the one I missed, a lot

I know we haven’t seen each other for some time . .
I know we haven’t talk for some time . .
But not seeing each other doesn’t mean I don’t care,
As not talking doesn’t mean I don’t want to talk.

We may be far from one another . .
But you must know that the distance between us connect us.
I may not be physically there . .
But you must know that I’m just always here.
We may be not having anymore bonding . .
But you must know, I’m still and will always be your friend,
Your bestfriend.

I’m writing this because I’m missing those days . .
I’m writing this because I’m missing my bestfriend . .
I’m writing this because I’m missing you!

you know who you are
my friend, I miss you a lot
^~~~^

Bestfriend Is More Than Just a Label

I’VE GOT no bestfriend. I never call anyone as my bestfriend rather. Yes I do have friends. Lots of them. But the thing is, from them, who are the true ones? But the thing is, from them, how will I know who are the true ones? I just want to leave it unanswered.

Bestfriend. One of my friends asked me; can you be my bestfriend? And my answer? I think it’s not a thing to ask for. It’s in the people. If they think you are a best friend to them then so be it. Do you think I’m rude for answering like that? I mean, yes, that friend of mine is one of my close friends. And I’m really overwhelmed she have asked that. I wanted to be her bestfriend but the thing is I’m afraid that our friendship will just become a label. I’m afraid that if I just answered her, okay then we’re bestfriends, our friendship will just be based from that label; a label without caring, a label without understanding, a label just so there’s a label, just a label and nothing more. And I never wanted it to happen.

Bestfriend. One of my friends asked me; who’s that? Your bestfriend? And my answer? Ah I don’t know, a close friend, yes, a close friend. Again, I never ever called anyone, even those who are close to me, as my bestfriend. So I have chosen to call them simply as friend or a close friend.

Bestfriend. I don’t have one. Or maybe I’m afraid to call one as my bestfriend. But deep inside me, I know who my bestfriends are. There are just things that scared me. Things that I don’t want to happen. Things that I don’t want to feel. Things that will flip my world upside down. Things that will swallow me. Things that will hurt me. Things that will… Maybe I fear that what if I call someone as my bestfriend and it’s not vice versa? Maybe I fear that what if I call someone as my bestfriend and it’ll just remain as a label? Maybe I fear that what if I call someone as my bestfriend and it’s not true at all?

Bestfriend;

I’d rather have a friendship built by understanding
than a friendship built by just a label.

I’d rather have a friendship with trust
than a friendship with label.

I’d rather have a friendship because of caring
than a friendship because of labeling.

I’d rather have a friendship bonded by one another
than a friendship bonded by a label.

I’d rather have a friendship strengthen thru time
than a friendship strengthen thru label.

I’d rather have a friendship that’s true and everlasting
than a friendship that’s unsure.

Let’s just not forget that friendship is not a label. Friendship is not about giving someone a label. Friendship is not about calling someone with a label.. Maybe one day, I can finally call, out loud, who my bestfriend(s) is(are) with all my heart.

^~~~^